romek-inen started with nothing but desert and desert mountains
and a volcano
but they weren't that big, they had to conquer an entire foreign nation plus cut another one in half and then build up the land between the three realms in order to grow into new romekate
i'd feel cheated if someone can just join and say "im this big now k"
I see. Well, I basically have just desert and desert mountains too from what I see, however if I need to cut back on size I will do so. Basically my logic was:
"Okay, the nations over at the coast and more developed and fertile areas are smaller, and the more inland, less fertile ones are larger. If I put my country say, here, then it will be challenging terrain with little farmland, and the size shouldn't be an issue due to roughness of terrain and development."
I don't mean to be pushy or anything; This is my first time playing something like this. I'm totally cool with shrinking or negotiating or whatever. Besides, pissing off new neighbors =/= a good idea for running a country.