All of this could have been avoided if Ventral didn't make the thread that got Pie so mad. Even so, both of you need to calm the forget down.
OP, someone was mean to you. Deal with it. Nobody in the real world has to pad corners and pamper you down every time someone loving yells at you.
Pie, a lot of forumers are annoyed at you, so clearly you're doing something wrong. I'm fine with you so I have no loving clue what it is. Sorry.