that just proves my point. the DSM-5 recognizes gender dysphoria, and the American Psychiatric Association is comprised of people much smarter than you and I. choosing to disregard it is, unquestionably, anti-science

opposite as in one of TWO genders
you guys want to try to put more words in my mouth that I didn't say?
uh you're mixing up gender and love. gender is a social construct by definition; love is the genetics.
no it loving isn'tfat does affect you negatively but some are predisposed to being overweight due to metabolism. the whole "dont fat-shame" thing is (purportedly) to address this fact and how fat people are automatically seen as ugly/bad.
So what, does that mean you become a land-whale because "forget it, even if I try I won't be skinny"?
It means you work to be and look your HEALTHIEST. I have never heard of someone who was like, "forget me, my metabolism prevents me from not taking up all the seats on the bus! All of them. At the same time. In EVERY ROW."
You are seen as ugly when you are unhealthy, NOT when you are fat. Regardless of what you look like at your healthiest, people are going to think you're attractive (unless you're physically/facially pug-ugly which is an entirely different story)
both sides have bad apples.
I will agree with you there