Never said you said either of those things, just explaining why you can absolutely blame him for not engaging in the community, because he allowed it to fester into what it would become
Badspot never used the word "hate" in reference to the community, just "contempt", it is still undeniably his fault that he feels that way, as he ultimately had the power to prevent things from getting as bad as they did, but just refused to do anything outside of the bare minimum