Its not hard to see why people don't want to Identify as 'Feminists'.
There are people who don't want to identify as white because their race has been tarnished by neo national socialists, a small but vocal minority. Is it right to hide your wanting for a good cause because a vocal minority makes it look bad? Is that all that's going to stop you from advocating for gender equality, because Susan down at FeministFrequency acts like a handicap?
Then why do massive websites like BuzzFeed and most feminist websites (everyday feminism, Salon, Huffington Post, etc.) all appeal to this supposed minority of feminists? You're delusional
Buzzfeed is trash and gains views off of advertisement and sharing schemes on facebook. Salon is also trash/tabloid. Huffington Post doesn't fall into those categories
You're not really proving much here