Maybe I'm missing something but nothing here really proves the assertion that torin and tito are making your friends remove you, it's all an assumption.
Even if tito and torin were proved to have gotten your friends to unfriend you, as Conan said they couldn't have been very good friends then.
Your primary point that Tito and Torin are attacking you seems like it's a classic case of teasing gone wrong, you would've done well by just taking Torin and Tito aside and talking to them like human beings instead you assume things and make a drama topic which probably caused even more issues.