Did you ever deal with long distance relationships?

[Nal]

itt: redpill gamers

also what I said has no correlation to what Steve said

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[torin²]

this all happened yesterday too. she'll be coming back to town today which i'm not exactly thrilled about

get critawakets on the phone he'll deal with her

[IkeTheGeneric]

liking someone through ldr is objectively less real that liking some in real life

I don't think anybody here wants to be in a permanent LDR or is even arguing that there's any benefits to that.

So did you just gloss over this or..?

[PhantOS]

So did you just gloss over this or..?

no. i'm not disagreeing with anyone, i'm just sharing my opinion on ldrs. the point of the topic is to share your experiences with ldrs, which i'm sure 90% of people with phones experience in their life. you and other people just found it fun to say i dont know what im talking about / invalidate everything i say / call me a redpiller

[Zloff]

if i was with a girl for maybe 4+ months and one of us had to move far away for a while i'd try to keep the relationship going, but i could neeeverrr get into a relationship that is long distance to start with

[Rally]

the benefits of a real relationship far outweigh ldr by a landslide. just being able to socialize in person and hang out is already an amazing feeling compared to just simply texting them about stuff

Holy forget dude, you're a genius. Nobody who's ever been in an LDR before realized that their relationship would be more enjoyable if they could just magically teleport to their partner's location, you really are the first person to figure this out. Are you just here to undermine other people's efforts to build a meaningful relationship with the people they care about lol?

Or is your advice to OP to just give up and dump the bitch on her ass because apparently he's mentally incapable of sustaining a relationship without love and 3 other words for love?

[Electrk.]

my mom just moved states to live with some rich dude and when she emptied his bank account she had no more use for him and destroyed his computer, burned his bed, and drove off with whatever remaining money he had with


soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

k

thanks for telling me there are stuffty people in the world

[PhantOS]

Holy forget dude, you're a genius. Nobody who's ever been in an LDR before realized that their relationship would be more enjoyable if they could just magically teleport to their partner's location, you really are the first person to figure this out. Are you just here to undermine other people's efforts to build a meaningful relationship with the people they care about lol?

Or is your advice to OP to just give up and dump the bitch on her ass because apparently he's mentally incapable of sustaining a relationship without love and 3 other words for love?

is your entire point to just read the 5% of my posts that involve love and just ignore the rest?

my first post is clear. ldrs aren't sustainable. its obvious by this post that you understand the fact about that. the other 'you should just end your relationship' bullstuff is you putting words in my mouth.

[Flamecannon]

If the Sun and Moon can do it so can you

[Rally]

is your entire point to just read the 5% of my posts that involve love and just ignore the rest?

Only 5% of your posts make loving sense. 100% of it is insensitive babble. You're telling people who have poured their hearts into difficult relationships with people that their bond isn't real because they lack some vague concepts you can barely explain. Just forget off dude damn

[IkeTheGeneric]

you and other people just found it fun to say i dont know what im talking about / invalidate everything i say / call me a redpiller

this is some crazy narcissistic bullstuff right here

"I was simply just posting my opinions, everyone just got mad like usual!"

[PhantOS]

Only 5% of your posts make loving sense. 100% of it is insensitive babble. You're telling people who have poured their hearts into difficult relationships with people that their bond isn't real. Just forget off dude damn

obviously your bond is real, it's just as real as my bond with, say, drydess or rykuta. i love them to death because they're awesome and i consider them my friends (maybe not mutual)

this is what a long distance bond is. it's liking the person's online personality. if you're already going into pouring your hearts into a mask on the internet, there's probably something wrong.

"I was simply just posting my opinions, everyone just got mad like usual!"

isn't that what it boils down to? i never told anyone what to do or how to do it. i just stated the facts and the way i make sense of them- either end the ldr, or commit to an irl relationship.

[Insert Name Here²]

stated the facts

"Facts"

Opinions =/= Facts bru

[IkeTheGeneric]

this is what a long distance bond is. it's liking the person's online personality.

Dude, we're not talking about internet relationships, we're talking about long distance relationships aka personal relationships that go long distance for any period of time. That's sorta what I loving hinted at with the quote you glossed over completely

LDRs aren't supposed to last forever, that's kind of the point, staking it out long distance until they can be personal, healthy relationships again. Your bullstuff about it "not working" doesn't help anyone

[Headcrab Zombie]

ITT: people apply their own relationship goals onto others

Everyone has a different goal and idea of what a relationship means to them and what they're looking to get out of it. You can't tell someone "your relationship style isn't the same as mine therefore your relationship is invalid" because it simply doesn't work that way