my point is that the program itself lacks this functionality which, in my opinion, would be a great addition.
you have to remember discord's objective was to be a hybrid of teamspeak and skype ideally, so being a skype user, i don't have a problem with it
sadly, sure, there is no feature added, it is a great idea hoenstly, but you're not going to break a sweat with a simple google search as well, much similar to IRC which is the example you're bringing in
i dont need to get close to people just to infiltrate their clique discord for a couple days and leave when there's no activity at all.
sounds like a personal issue