and what happens if you change your mind in 5 years or so? oopsies too late now
I'm not changing my mind on something that will affect my life in a negative way permanently. If it was a small thing then yes "what if u change your mind" would be a valid point, but kids is legit one of the biggest changes you can do to your life aside from going to jail or killing yourself, so just going "what if u change ur mind xd" isn't a valid point
Also adoption exists
Regretting not having kids can be fixed by adopting or dating someone with a kid. Regretting having kids cannot be fixed, you will live in resentment with your SO and your kids, which will end up hurting many people because you made a choice without thinking it through fully.
better safe than sorry tbh
Literally this to the fullest extent
Birth control, condoms, and stuff can be tampered with or ignored and lied about. If I get a vasectomy, all those issues are null and void, and I can be exempt from child support if some girl cheats and gets pregnant, and lies and says I'm the father