good on u to cut ur losses and abstain from any contact
let the friends know that you two have reached peace, any further contact will just reignite contentions
Thanks. Honestly, I’m just going to continue not responding. The last thing I want is for her to try to pull some bullstuff and say “look, he’s trying to contact me through my friends!” The leeway someone has when they have a restraining order against someone, and can abuse it, is ridiculous. Our/my mutual friend tells me that she knows I’m where I am, and is going to be sending her friend even if I don’t respond. Whether my stuff will actually be left outside, get a brick through my window, or a bullet to the head—I don’t know.
damn this is heartbreaking
I go back and forth between resenting her, and pitying her. But it’s gotten harder and harder to feel bad for someone who goes out of their way over such lengths of time to ruin your life after breaking the chain.
