jesus christ i hate when people say they 'identify' or abuse the word 'identity'
I'm not abusing it, what else would you call it?
Because It's not true and I don't want to be forced to playing along with their fairy-tale. They may identify as their opposite gender but they will never truly be the love they want to be.
And here we see khanu again displaying how much of an starfish he is and he doesn't even realize it. I'm pretty sure they know, or at least VH knows, that they'll never be the love they want to be. There are definitely people who like to think they're truly the love they aren't, and there are others who don't do this. Then again you wouldn't know that, because you say things without knowing anything about what you're talking about.
This situation is a lot like calling someone by their real name when they have a nickname, but you call them by their real name because "their nickname isn't their real name". How would you feel if people started calling you something you didn't go by? You'd probably feel like you're being bullied, disrespected, or something more.
What I'm trying to say is to not go with what they go by is simply disrespectful and not courteous at all, and it really just makes you look like an starfish to people.