A bit too much Super DOF though
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"Pretty please? ...With sugar on top?"

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can someone pls explain what passes / radials / shape means? I have an idea but I want to be sure.
Super DOF goes in a circular motion to render the blur, radials means how many circles the render process goes through, passes... i'm not too sure and shape, putting it to one side make it blur horizontally, putting it to the other side makes it blur vertically, the middle is the default circular shaped blurs