Bandwagon race!
I myself agree with badspot. Ive spent days thinking this, but remembered: all fourms are like this. Name one and it has drama. Drama is an inevitable thing that many try to avoid, and if they cant they break down and ragequit. Hell, Half of the "respected members" on this page had the grammar of kyle man two years ago, and yuki- well yuki can be comparable to lew in his first posts.
tldr: DRAMATIC PHAGGOTS