I'm tempted to port forward and make a server where it's a free for all and government has to be established. One of the things I hate in most servers is the fact that people take complete control over their own server and punish people only by banning them. They also don't seem to see the difference between griefing and raiding. Stealing is not griefing. Killing people is not griefing. You should always keep yourself and your things well protected and it's your fault that any of it is destroyed. Someone burning your stuffty little wooden house is borderline griefing. Wood burns and if you don't want your things to burn then don't make your things out of wood. Griefing would be using persister or whatever the forget it is to get 255 buckets of lava and dumping them all over a city. People should figure out that this is survival and not creative.