I want someone to host an actual survival server :(
don't give a stuff if someone griefs, you should build far away where no one can find you, or seek safety in numbers
where no one cares if you steal*, because it's the person's who left his chests unattended (and home) fault
stuff like that, I don't want PvP off or have to go to an arena, nor do I want 100 bukkit mods disabling me from even entering a persons house because they fear you'll grief or something.