Ok, people, you must understand.... WE ARE ALLOWED TO ATTACK YOUR stuffTY LITTLE CASTLE, DONT BITCH ABOUT IT!!
That's the main point of the server. Stop crying and move on. Don't put too much work into it, honestly, in fact, the more work you put into it, the more loving likely it'l get burned down. Don't go crying like a little baby when you get surprise attacked by some raiders. And if you're too loving gullible, and make a huge build, at least have some good defenders on your side.
Main point:
STOP CRYING WHEN YOUR ISLAND / CASTLE / CITY / TOWN / WHATEVER THE forget ELSE gets destroyed. Now, i bet heedi will even agree with this.
If you can't take the heat of your city that took 5 miniutes to build burning down, get off the mother loving server.