I didn't say that I have the answer to what a real relationship is, and I think it's the kind of thing where you can only speak with authority on the topic when you know you've been in one. I'm convinced that teenagers aren't able to feel that, though, because I've gone through exactly (well, not exactly, I'm not a furry or gay) what these two children are going through now.
My whole middle school and highschool years I thought I could go through the motions of what I saw in other relationships and I would stumble upon the underlying emotion. I thought that I could say "I care for you, girl, so much." and then feel it, rather than feeling it first and then arriving at the place of the visible signs of a successful relationship.
I think a serious part of growing up is realizing that, the only way you can ever gain wisdom is through personal experience. This is the root of ideas such as "some mistakes you have to make yourself." So, I'm not saying that I'm a relationship guru and can speak with authority on what does and doesn't make a successful relationship. I HAVE however made it all the way through adolescence, highschool, and middle school, I know what it's like to be fueled by hormones and confusion over the emotional aspect, and I know how easy it is to say all the words without actually feeling them. I don't think anyone so young can really feel those words.
Trust me, this isn't one of those faulty attention-wanting relationships. TD and i have known each other for a pretty decently long time and we talk pretty much every day.
See, this is what I'm saying! This describes the interaction and the relationship I have with
so many people I know and really care for, men and women, people my age and older. Just because I say to my friend "Wow, you know what, you are an amazing friend, and I really care about you." Even if they say the exact same thing back to me, that certainly doesn't mean we'd make a good couple. Hell, even "making a good couple" doesn't entail a relationship.
Again, I'm not advocating for a very specific parameter and even if I were I don't know what it'd be. I'm just saying, to truly make a loving relationship you need emotions I don't think teenagers are capable of feeling (and I'm not saying I am!)