VOILENCE
Stick your richard between your couch cushions and forget.
Are young relationships bad? Should I avoid them? (I'm 12)
In personal opinion, yes. You can't really do anything with your other. Kissing is awkward generally, holding hands is frowned upon by parents etc etc.
Also, most women and men change around your age. Today she might be a sweetheart, but in 2 years she might be a dyke.
How do I download some songs onto my Itunes without anyone in my family noticing?
Well, first question;
Why's it matter if they see you downloading stuff?
Unless you're downloading girls talking dirty to you, in which case I can understand.