Looks like everyone involved done messed up.
Personally, my only issue with Zane is that I'm pretty sure he still owes me some books from that stronghold we raided. And because my client connection was stuffty and I lagged a lot, he did have to save my ass (and my gear). It was good fun though. Using the coordinates he provided for the first two strongholds, I used a computer graphing utility to calculate the location of the third stronghold; I was accurate within 100 blocks. Was good fun.
Also I have his nether portal set as my nether home so I like to hop on over to his farm and harvest all his wheat whenever I'm running low.
Anyways I think part of the issue is that Zane comes off as a bit of a braggart at times. The mega-farm is pretty useful (although you are NEVER EVER EVER going to need that much nether wart unless you manage an automatic 24/7 potion farm), and he's not really that bad a guy. To some extent, there's some sort of attitude about "who does what better" which is pretty ridiculous IMO.
Although Zane, you DID brag to me about your Mining ranking in MCMMO before. (I don't give two stuffs about who is what level, I just want my double drops)
So that's that.
Now kiss and make up.