It would be a lot easier to discuss if we knew what OP sees as '' loveual harrassment''.
Girls usually like it when guys do these kinds of things to them.
he made no mention of the guy loveually assaulting the girl he "passionately loved", that was some other person as far as the OP reads.
this guy is
only flirting with the girl he "passionately loved". if that's enough to break his heart and ruin his "love" for that girl, then it's not love. It's attraction, not love. that's my point.