Keep telling yourself that.
Just keep in mind this invalidates any advice you could possibly give on the subject.
not really.
Just because I haven't done something it doesn't mean I don't know how to do it. I've observed tons of loving interactions between people and boyfriends/girlfriends in particular.
When I say I haven't put any effort into it, I mean it, I lack the confidence to talk to a girl with the hopes of loving her. On the contrary, I have talked to a couple girls that I consider friends (not so much hang out with friends, but talking to friends, if you get what I mean) openly about the subject and gotten their input on it.
Girls just want guys that they think are "cute" and are confident enough to tell them what they want. That's the simple science of it all.
That would be like saying you fought in WWII when you were born in 1995, it doesn't loving make sense and you can be considered a liar, and chances are noone is going to like you.
So yeah.
terrible anology
a better reason is because a girl will just think you're weird and stalkerish if you say you love her when you aren't dating already.
I don't know all of my knowledge doesn't pertain to 13 year olds, so i guess elecro can disregard it.
the real trouble here is that elecro is an ugly motherforgeter in his current state and doesn't really have a chance with this girl unless she's also an ugly motherforgeter.