Author Topic: I am really lame  (Read 2656 times)

It's just that crowd that loves to act like theyre so cool and popular.
Coincidentally they seem to have more issues in relation to their crowd than a more well adapted, "unpopular" crowd may.  Unnecessary drama, friendships built on absolutely nothing, etc.

Coincidentally they seem to have more issues in relation to their crowd than a more well adapted, "unpopular" crowd may.  Unnecessary drama, friendships built on absolutely nothing, etc.
i am def in the popular group at my school and pretty much everyone is close af and we dont really have problems. probably like 30 kids in the group in out grade, then kids from other grades too. occasionally there is some drama when like a couple breaks up and they dont want to talk to each other but i mean nothing big. some of the chicks get in fights sometimes but that happens in every group.

plus i mean the popular groups rarely actually separate themselves completely from the other groups. i mean there are obv some huge differences in some areas but for the most part, the majority of our grade knows/socializes with each other. there is like the weirdo nerd group that has that "pff we're better then them" and removes themselves from everyone else, and like the outcasts who are just kind of anti-social, but still.

im not saying our whole class is one big happy family, but this whole "just a bunch of meaningless friendships" thing is pretty false in most cases.

In short you're lacking self confidence, which has been stated numerous times in this thread, and you are lacking the will to change.  Unfortunately we cannot generate the will to change yourself for you, this is something that depends on you.  And doing so will determine whether or not you can really go forward in life or whether you'll just have nothing really.

all i can say is stop being lazy, and if you fake confidence eventually it'll become real. :P

You could always talk to me hon.~

I doubt my opinion matters on the subject, but you're the least lame guy I know. <3

all i can say is stop being lazy, and if you fake confidence eventually it'll become real. :P
This probably works, I can't remember if I faked it or not, but I think it would be mentally healthier to just actually gain confidence.

First step:  look positively, always.

I feel your pain, man. I also have self confidence issues, I also have the same problems at the lunchroom.


100% empathy.

Actually, high school is where it's easiest to make friends. There are so many more people to make friends with that you'll certainly find someone. Just look for an accepting group that shares your interests. People are more forgiving of awkwardness than you think.

Its alright, I had the same issue but, things have gotten a lot better for me recently I am really shy and last year was hell for me because I didn't talk to anyone besides this one kid who always annoyed me over things and I had no one else to talk to because I was too shy and I am now but I have a lot of new friends I wouldn't be so shy because there's nothing wrong with talking to new people all throughout my life I had anger issues and I had a problem with being social and that kinda stuff, this year has completely changed for me for the better and that is because I started being more noticeable and It is never too late to change. Don't give up

And I'm still shy this year but I talk to every group.

Last thing you honestly want is homeschooling.