No, I see it. I'm just shedding a different light on it.
Swat, we're here to have fun (I think? It's hard to tell sometimes, that or we're just junkies.). If you're consistently getting called a fun-ruiner or you know that you're being what people call a powergmer, and yet you continue on your path, you're a jerk and I have no sympathy for you. Does that mean that you're not doing what a nation RP is all about? Not necessarily. But it does mean that you're a jerk.
That's not what it is. I'm sure Swat will give you a rundown though.