I'm not trying to be a jerk, it's just really irritating. I personally can't stand waiting for a response on the forum, so I can't relate to asking like that at all. especially in a thread like this, where there's honestly no telling when you'll get a response, if you even get one, period. and in this case, I wouldn't have considered asking about it if I hadn't gotten bothered by the way he asked, just because I don't feel confident that I'd have an answer. if you explain the problem initially, then people can read it and easily know whether or not they can help without having to put themselves out there first. however minimally, it's embarrassing to publicly offer help and then not be able to give it