feminism isn't about women exclusively
it's also about femininity
I feel that it's important for me to establish the difference between love and gender, though this is regurgitated many times. love is physical, gender is psychological. love is generally black and white, and gender is in a spectrum that ranges from feminine and masculine.
Feminism is about not only people who have vaginas, but also people who think and behave in ways associated with those with vaginas. So, yes, that includes men.
Issues such as the fact that women can wear typically men's clothing, such as flannels, without stigma, but a man wearing a skirt or a blouse is considered wrong. Why is it wrong to be effeminate?
FTMs are generally better treated than MTFs because people find it strange that a man wants to be a woman, but a woman acting however she wants is more ok (but not totally). Why is it wrong to be effeminate?
I'm a
cisgendered male, and I need feminism because I don't want to act like a normal male. I might be more effeminate, but that doesn't mean I'm non-binary. I want to wear makeup. I want to wear "women's clothing." I also want to be taken seriously and respected while doing such. I don't want to cause media attention because of that. I'm not special. If being ladylike isn't viewed as a bad thing, which is a goal of feminism, then I can do this. Of course, if that happens, I'm not going to be alive by then, but it's not like i'm ever going to mention this again. and i know i'm going to be ridiculed for this and start another argument about gender but i'm taking the risks
MRAs are absolutely wrong when they say that feminism only affects women. Extremely wrong.
also now i have to read what you sent