(no hate replies please) i have a crush on my straight friend

[Rockinboy2000]

hey guys im back, all day thinking about him, ive read these and some of them help but i cant stop thinking of him, should i tell him?

probably ask him why he :
1. wanted you to grab his balls or something
2. why he was rubbing your thigh that one night or something
3. ask him if he is gay, but make sure to tell him that you wont hate him for it
4. if he says yes then cue the steamy makeout session i guess tell him you are aswell then uh talk about your feelings with him, if he says no just go on with life
if he asks why your asking him then just say because you remembered it and was just wondering

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[ultimamax]

tbh you shouldn't really be dating at all at 12 anyways

There's no harm in it, even if it's unlikely to amount to anything. Life experience is worth something, right?

[ultimamax]

Eh, what the heck., what's the point in lying, so here I go.

Quit pretending your gay. Cuz your not. Now shaddup and get a life.

god forget you
edit: failed to see the troll. woops

OP I don't think you should admit to him just yet. If he's not gay/bi then it could lead to awkwardness or an end to the friendship. You need to find a way to figure out more certainly whether he's gay/bi or if he'd react well if you admitted it.

[Lego lad]

If you know for a fact that he's straight, then it's probably best to leave him alone.

[Ipquarx]

OP I don't think you should admit to him just yet. If he's not gay/bi then it could lead to awkwardness or an end to the friendship. You need to find a way to figure out more certainly whether he's gay/bi or if he'd react well if you admitted it.

It seems pretty certain he's at LEAST bi curious

[Meowington³]

If your really comfortable with him I suggest you lightly ask him if he's ever been interested in a guy, and if he's like no way..
Well, pull the I'm just kidding lol move.

[ultimamax]

It seems pretty certain he's at LEAST bi curious

I don't know. The "GRAB MY BALLS" thing is pretty suspicious, same with the "i love you man". maybe you're right. If OP is ready to come out, that would be a good way to do it. (not "I have a crush on you" but simply "i'm gay/bi".) If he is actually bi/gay then he's clearly interested and will consider telling him

[ShadowsfeaR]

Idk 'bout you brothers but kids that age say and do crazy stuff, like the "grab my balls" thing. My irl friends say "I love you" in a joking and fun manner all the time, that the OP is probably purporting it in a different way. I'd suggest just NOT doing anything to advance on him.

[ultimamax]

It depends how he said it. If he got all serious and said "I love you man." he was probably joking
If he said it sort of reluctantly then he was sort of half-assing.

[ShadowsfeaR]

It depends how he said it. If he got all serious and said "I love you man." he was probably joking
If he said it sort of reluctantly then he was sort of half-assing.

Like I said, the OP could easily be confusing how his friend projected the wording, merely to give himself the illusion that maybe his friend is gay/bi.

Or maybe he is, but js.

[Swat 3]

OP just has to simply ask "straight" friend if he is gay. He's probably discovering himself, and he's probably not ready to start telling people he is bi/gay or not. From what OP tells us (which may be extremely exaggerated), I think crush has a pretty good chance of turning out gay, but it might just be bromance that is going on.

If he isn't gay, then that is that, you should just ignore your attraction because you can't make someone gay. Sure, if he says he is straight, maybe he is just so far into the closet his ass is in Narnia, but you can't know unless he tells you.

[Shortcut]

i had romantic fantasies with a sanpellegrino limonata if that counts

When I was in 5th grade, I had a dream where I rode gardevoir and killed a bunch of people and it aroused me

[th3coolst3r]

From what OP tells us (which may be extremely exaggerated)

im not exaggerating, im 100% serious, whenever i listen to a song like Animals-Maroon 5 or Stereo Hearts i always think of him, i still dont know what to do

[WaffleCake]

if this relationship does turn out, uh
who's gonna be the woman

[ultimamax]

if this relationship does turn out, uh
who's gonna be the woman

neither of them they're both men