No? If your mom sat down and read all of your posts on the BL forum, would you feel violated?
nope
then again, it's a fact that my mom is too cool.

definitely a few steps above the average person's mommy, at least
If your friend started going through your stuff for no reason, would you feel violated?
happens all the time, it's entertaining
The "you have nothing to fear if you have nothing to hide" argument is complete bullstuff. Every human being is entitled to restrict their private information unless it's directly relevant to a crime or other misdeed.
we can't all be wussies like you constantly afraid of somebody seeing something we want to hide.
"i'm going to judge someone's opinions on unsubstantiated feelings and my own ignorance!"
my laziness, more accurately. if you think i'm wrong, then feel free to try and actually explain why.
as long as you respect police theyll most likely respect you, and you can respect them while STILL not consenting to a search
sure, but that still doesn't change that there's really not a reason to not consent.