Poll

what should i do

nothing
52 (26.9%)
tell parents
51 (26.4%)
make a situation where the parents find out
35 (18.1%)
give her a "talk"
21 (10.9%)
other
3 (1.6%)
call the cops?
31 (16.1%)

Total Members Voted: 193

Author Topic: My sister is illegally holding alcohol  (Read 35795 times)

Wanna know why?

Because it doesn't matter, everyone has been young and stole something (unless you're some goody 2 shoed rat ofc). It's not a major thing, not even when it's a little flask of wine.
No, when it comes to right and wrong, you can't just construct your own gray area. Well, you can, but it likely won't work out for you. There's a reason stealing is illegal, and I'm pretty sure a law doesn't give two craps about how "minor" it was, it's still a crime. This does not mean I don't believe in different levels of punishment, but I do believe any and all stealing should be punished in some form.

Also, I never suggested anyone get arrested, lol. For something like that, punishment should be in the hands of the parents. There was no property damage, no B&E - so yes, the punishment should be taken care of by the parents. I hope they wouldn't report something like that to the police.

Anyway, I've stated my position. I'm just gonna watch from now on. ;)

@OP: Please, before you post something like this on the BLF again, realize that this sort of thing almost always ends up in a huge never ending debate.

What?
He's ruining someone elses stuff to make his cake more special and that's messed up.
It's not really shady or selfish. From his perspective, he is protecting his sister while preventing her from resenting him for a stupid reason
Yeah uh I think we already established that this is just a tiny bonus for him, he wants to screw her over real good or else he wouldn't do the shady neighbour calling stuff.

That's not how it works? She knows its wrong to steal wine and to drink alcohol, but that is part of the reason why she is doing it lol.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZbdMMI6ty0o

Part of the video explains why we like doing things we aren't supposed to do/like.

Yea, but she'll end up being accustom that it's a minor thing to do, when in reality it isn't.

also adding what i would most likely do in your situation.

i would go into her room at night, grab a wine bottle and put it on her night desk, pin her down on her bed, then whisper in a demonic voice while hugging her how bad she is for doing this. if she decides to be a slut, have fun ;)
this is really gay considering OP is female (scar z)

Yea, but she'll end up being accustom that it's a minor thing to do, when in reality it isn't.
Stop with your assumptions.
Are you serious? Is this really your way of thinking?

Holy stuff get out of this thread already lol

He's ruining someone elses stuff to make his cake more special and that's messed up.Yeah uh I think we already established that this is just a tiny bonus for him, he wants to screw her over real good or else he wouldn't do the shady neighbour calling stuff.
I've already said he should tell his parents, not the police. If he's seriously still considering calling the police then I'm no longer in support. There's no problem with telling his parents though.

What?It's not really shady or selfish. From his perspective, he is protecting his sister while preventing her from resenting him for a stupid reasoneurope=sux

He would still have to own up to his decision

I don't see how going behind your sister and parents' backs to snitch about a flask of wine is going to seem non-shady.
And then there's the part where posing as a neighbor would be flawed because the sister would suspect you anyways and a neighbor probably would be unwitting of a little girl drinking some wine from across the street

To tell you the truth, this turned out as a fair debate. Both sides had bery good perspectives.

But I think im not going to call as a "neighbor", im going to think this out a little more


you're making the exact same mistake assuming that she won't. Stop with YOUR assumptions.

1) Reporting her "anonymously" is stupid. She will know it was him in various different ways.
2) Reporting his sister to the police will put her on record and "on the list", possibly put her in rehab stuff, ruin her social life, possible give her depression, ect.
Uh that's what he said he was gonna do.
Whatever happens is his own fault.

edit: nvm now that he has decided against

you're making the exact same mistake assuming that she won't. Stop with YOUR assumptions.
I'm realistic


have you perhaps thought of telling your parents that she planned to blame it on you? Example:
you go to tell your parents. when you tell them, you also mention that she told you that if you told she'd say you hid it there and say you watch research. Then, when she does say exactly that to them, they'll know the truth.


OP could also just see how far she goes with stealing stuff, if it starts to grow then he should tell someone