Just because he apologized doesn't mean he is instantly okay in everyone's book. We don't have to forgive him. It also doesn't make the drama invalid. Cool, he said sorry, he shouldn't have loving said it in the first place. It's not hard to not be a complete stuffhead. I have episodes of anxiety and depression and I've never wished death upon someone or laughed at a person's death. "Built up aggression" is no excuse. He gets to live with the consequences of what he did.