Well look, Ike. It isn't cool to do that, I've acknowledged that, and I'm not going to do it anymore. I'm sorry for when I have done it, and I don't want this site making me feeling any stufftier because of the (deserved) backlash I receive from my actions on it when I've got enough problems to deal with in real life.
And I'm sorry for lashing out like I did. Sometimes it's pretty easy to forget there's another person behind the user :u
You're right though about the haven part, this is supposed to be a place to have fun posting, not to get caught up in dumb mudslinging fights and burning other users at the stake for no reason. I do admit I've gotten caught up in some of that dumb stuff in the past without realizing it, it's not easy to avoid doing.
Just please remember that when you belittle somebody like that, you're doing it to an actual person with actual feelings. Those words stick
