I mean modern feminism, third wave feminism. You're over-brown townyzing a bit there. Equality is achieved legally. Unless feminists define equality as lack of gender-specific issues, which even then, its lack of addresses to the gender-specific issues of men prevents any kind of equality under feminism from existing either way.
Even third wave feminism is still too ambiguous, within literally every single feminism group out there, there are majorly clashing ideas. Third wave feminism doesn't even
have a strict definition, it's an order of magnitude more ambiguous than just "feminism."
From wikipedia: "Third-wave feminism refers to
several diverse strains of feminist activity and study,
whose exact boundaries in the history of feminism are a subject of debate, but are generally marked as beginning in the early 1990s and continuing to the present."
And no, this is not over-brown townyzing, you're trying to argue that an entire group of people, every individual having different beliefs, many clashing with one another, that every single one of them is wrong. You're going to have to attack a specific idea (Preferably one that's provably held by the majority) if you want to have any remote chance of success.