Author Topic: am i a bad person for this?  (Read 2469 times)

"social anxiety" is irrelevant
he blocked her number. and then two weeks later, he pretends to feel bad about it, clearly still having her number blocked
he didn't block her because he was "SCARED", he did it because he's a richard

not to mention how ridiculous it is that you seem to think it's reasonable to be afraid of someone's weight

nice strawman, starfish. by the way, i've been guilty ever since i blocked her. the only reason i blocked her was the fact that the thought of talking to her again made me have unbearable panic attacks.

y do I need to be responsible for making sure you read
i see
what I'm getting is that he wasn't scared of her fat, but of how he'd be able to overlook it and try to talk to her like he had been before tho

i can talk like a normal human being through texting, with little anxiety. when i meet said person, however, i am extremely anxious and can't be around them. that's how the cycle usually goes. i'm not scared of her fat, i felt betrayed, and the panic attack was about meeting her.

not to mention how ridiculous it is that you seem to think it's reasonable to be afraid of someone's weight
she only showed him the sprinkles on the stuffcake like what do you expect? him to accept the stuffcake and eat it?

You did the right thing
she knew she was hiding a HUGE(no pun intended) feature of herself in the pictures.
That's a pretty major thing to have dropped on you yk?
Not to mention if she was actually dropped on you you'd prob die

You did the right thing
she knew she was hiding a HUGE(no pun intended) feature of herself in the pictures.
That's a pretty major thing to have dropped on you yk?
Not to mention if she was actually dropped on you you'd prob die
i love you

You did the right thing
she knew she was hiding a HUGE(no pun intended) feature of herself in the pictures.
That's a pretty major thing to have dropped on you yk?
Not to mention if she was actually dropped on you you'd prob die
I can't with this, this is gold

Night fox, what exactly is your point here? Or are you just trying to start an argument for the the hell of it?

not to mention how ridiculous it is that you seem to think it's reasonable to be afraid of someone's weight
But honestly, if you're not attracted to someone, then you're just not attracted. And it's hard to have a relationship with someone that you're not at all attracted to.

She kinda lied about her weight by covering it up when sending pictures. Regardless of your thoughts on weight, a relationship based on lying is never going to work out.

Night fox, what exactly is your point here? Or are you just trying to start an argument for the the hell of it?
His point is that it's really rude to just completely cut contact with the girl without even saying a thing. Which it is.

He might've made an excuse to leave after meeting her, but he still asked to meet her then left, and never contacted her again at all.
Not even to say that it's not going to work or anything.


Yeah, he's not required to date the girl, or be friends with her even, but it's still a richard thing to just ditch and then cut contact with someone without explanation.

Or are you just trying to start an argument for the the hell of it?
Well it's Night Fox, that's like his thing.

Night fox, what exactly is your point here? Or are you just trying to start an argument for the the hell of it?

he does that. that's his shtick.

this is like the third time I've said this. huh.

Yeah, he's not required to date the girl, or be friends with her even, but it's still a richard thing to just ditch and then cut contact with someone without explanation.
If the story is like he says it is, then the girl knows exactly why he cut contact.

No, fat is awful.
Unless they've got a super fat disorder or something. Still I couldnt ever ever date a fat person.

night fox has some insecurities :( so sad