Remember that chick I met a couple months ago? Meet The Parents Edition!

[Electrk.]

no

[Ad Bot]

[Akio-]

no yes

[Camel]

Well I mean she flat out told me three weeks ago that she "didn't want to mess this up".

well then i guess break up with her cus she's not aloof?!?!


if you really like this girl i would assume you'd be thrilled she likes you to and cares about the quality of your relationship.

[Electrk.]

no

glad you agree with me

[Foxscotch]

I may be interested in this girl for the long term, but that means we need to take it slow.

why do you think that?

[Col. Derontchi]

well then i guess break up with her cus she's not aloof?!?!


if you really like this girl i would assume you'd be thrilled she likes you to and cares about the quality of your relationship.

Yeah, but I don't want her to just give me her affection that easily. Sounds a little strange, but I wanna work for it.

why do you think that?

It's just something I think will help solidify the relationship. Everything then becomes more valuable, including the other person.
Idk, I'm feeling a little depressed today for various reasons, so it may just be the mood I'm in.
Also, the date ended on kind of a negative note because she was somewhat in trouble with her parents, which kinda killed the buzz.

[Foxscotch]

It's just something I think will help solidify the relationship. Everything then becomes more valuable, including the other person.

why do you think taking it slow will make it more valuable? I'm not asking because I disagree, necessarily, I just don't see any reason to feel that way

[Col. Derontchi]

why do you think taking it slow will make it more valuable? I'm not asking because I disagree, necessarily, I just don't see any reason to feel that way

It ensures that we don't try to force a connection, which is what I kind of feel her doing. Like I said, it could just happen to be a bad day for me (it hasn't been great).

[Bloody Mary]

It ensures that we don't try to force a connection, which is what I kind of feel her doing. Like I said, it could just happen to be a bad day for me (it hasn't been great).

I don't get it. She's into you, you're into her. It sounds like a connection has already formed. I feel like this is the same kind of mentality that made you not want to message her too often for fear of running out of things to say.

[Col. Derontchi]

I don't get it. She's into you, you're into her. It sounds like a connection has already formed. I feel like this is the same kind of mentality that made you not want to message her too often for fear of running out of things to say.

Maybe you're right. It probably is just the stuffty day I'm having.

Anyway, we need to start brainstorming second date ideas. There aren't a whole lot because we only have small towns between us, which heavily limits our options. I doubt her parents would let her do any hiking. We already saw a movie. There aren't many good places to eat. forget

[Heitmeyer²]

i loving love how this thread has made it to 72 pages. must be one of the most entertaining threads from 2015.

[Rally]

Yeah, but I don't want her to just give me her affection that easily. Sounds a little strange, but I wanna work for it.

You ate a loving paint-ball for it lmao.

Sorry dude but the exciting chase part is over, you got the girl and now you have to have a relationship. Relationships start fast, they always do, this is how you get everything out on the table and decide where to go from there. Your relationship will slow down eventually.

[Col. Derontchi]

You ate a loving paint-ball for it lmao.

Sorry dude but the exciting chase part is over, you got the girl and now you have to have a relationship. Relationships start fast, they always do, this is how you get everything out on the table and decide where to go from there. Your relationship will slow down eventually.

The paintball was also a rite of passage. In order to get better at paintball, you must become paintball. And since you are what you eat...

Never stop chasing. Ever. I am feeling better about it all though because we've gotten past the first date follow-up texts and now we're having fun with the conversations again. Plus I've been listening to Sporify which has helped me chill out

[Foxscotch]

Never stop chasing.

Always Be Chasing

[Rally]

Never stop chasing. Ever.

That's a good mindset but it's also essentially the opposite of forcing things to be slow lel