Anyone who preaches of any sort of patriarchy just needs to be disregarded. They don't have any real grasp of how modern society works. Yes, there are more males in leader position than females. This isn't the core underlined issue, but rather a symptom of a larger, more philosophical reason.
To simply put it, a lot of your fanatical feminists don't put enough time or effort into figuring out how the world around them ticks and rather settles on more idealistic beliefs such as the patriarchy because it's a much easier 'issue' to tackle and it feeds into this victim narrative we hear so much about.
My biggest issue with the matter is that anyone with these said ideals end up doing themselves more harm than good and they're completely oblivious to this. Not only are these people going to end up alienating themselves from society based off of a fundamental misunderstanding, but there are some individuals who are going out of their way to attack people based on these misunderstandings.