So if two people look like a woman, one has had surgery (X) and one has not (Y) , Y is still a man, but X is a woman, even if Y looks more like one?
does Y want to be labelled as a man or a woman?
Does X have surgery to look like a woman or a man?
your question is a little confusing tbh but ill reiterate
I believe you can identify as whatever you want
within the binaryunless you have some genetic thing then you can be dumped into the other category
*edit was a minor grammar mistake