forget if I know. Its just personal experience.
Your personal experience is anecdotal and is not a valid argument. Nobody here knows you or the people you know, and for all we do know you could be making up claims to support your argument.
If you get offended when called monday but not if you're called brother then you have no self respect.
Why is it such a big deal to morons like you that black people sometimes call each other "brothers"? Can you not distinguish the use of a word as a racial insult and the use of a word as an endearing term?