Author Topic: please consider the humanity of your fellow forum goers  (Read 16431 times)

the blf grew with us, we haven't outgrown it

the blf grew with us, we haven't outgrown it

I feel this the most honestly

pm me and we can talk about our feelings
Donnie to be frank, your lastfm statistics scare me.

I work hard daily to get my damn scrobbles up and here you are with 800 this week.

lol its called growing up everyone remembers the "good old days" becuz u were still young and it was new to you the forums arent changing you are
this is not relevant at all to what im saying wtf lol and its also stupid because the forum changed with us lmao we're really not getting fresh users

Donnie to be frank, your lastfm statistics scare me.

I work hard daily to get my damn scrobbles up and here you are with 800 this week.
i listen to music a lot because there are a lot of situations right now where id rather listen to music than talk to people and be social

we're really not getting fresh users

Maybe my forum age is showing but I pretty much don't know anyone here anymore. I've seen the overall tone of the forum shift substantially over the years depending on who the current active users are.

Maybe my forum age is showing but I pretty much don't know anyone here anymore.
It also doesn't help that everyone keeps getting banned and coming back with new names or just deciding to switch over to a different account

about half of my posts are from 2010 thru 2012 - i didn't post much from late 2012 thru mid 2015 - and coming back from that break i hardly recognized anyone. even from mid 2015 to now in early 2017 i've noticed that the list of regularly active users has changed some

i think the blf change with the trends and state of the internet in general. as "internet culture" changes so does the tone of the blf, likely as with any other internet forum whose userbase browses other forums or social media. i add that last part because the car forums i've frequented haven't changed much since like 2001 (ik this bc of all the old tutorial/photo/build threads i've checked out) and those users (typically aged 16-36 i guess) usually only get on the internet specifically for cars; they're not interested in other kinds of forums or topics in mainstream social media. there's no fresh memes. practically isolated from internet culture

A few years ago, I made a decision once and for all to never look at the Drama board ever again. For a while, it worked pretty well. You could pretty much spare yourself from all the nonsense as long as you avoided that particular section.

But lately I've been thinking that it might be necessary to abandon Off Topic as well. There has always been a problem, but it has gotten worse with the addition of things like the 2016 election and the return of certain people. Most of Off Topic is now politics, obvious troll threads, a combination of those two, or joke threads.

This doesn't apply to everyone here, but many people are way too stubborn and don't think anything through well enough and they're too quick to destroy others over stuff that doesn't matter. That has always been the issue with BLF (that and the few people who are literally loving insane who can't seem to stop using BLF as an outlet for their madness and spam it up with gore once in while and somehow aren't totally ostracized for it). But now it's gotten more widespread to the point where you can't go into Off Topic at all without running into some nonsense about Annoying Orange or SJWs or whatever. This is more a problem with the real world than just BLF, to be honest. People are getting more defensive and less open-minded about their political stances in general lately, and what's happening in BLF is just a reflection of that.

Or, maybe the real problem is that our focus has shifted from addons and furries to actual real world issues, and BLF is no longer an escape from reality.

I also just want to reiterate something a few people have already said: If the forums are getting you down, you really should consider just leaving. Even loving Badspot once said "I recommend avoiding the forums." There are some cool-ass people here but the negative side of it usually isn't worth getting involved in.

tl;dr I rehash a lot of other people's posts

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if only the blf wasn't so aggressive

Maybe my forum age is showing but I pretty much don't know anyone here anymore. I've seen the overall tone of the forum shift substantially over the years depending on who the current active users are.

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if only the blf wasn't so aggressive

If you learn to act like a normal person around people who want normality you'd do 100% better here

if only the blf wasn't so aggressive

I've been on many forums and IRCs and other kinda communities, and I can tell you for sure that the BLF isn't extraordinarily hostile, in fact this community is a lot more lax and welcoming than a lot of other larger forums

...you're just kinda annoying realtalk
« Last Edit: March 16, 2017, 06:51:06 PM by IkeTheGeneric »

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