i don't tend to agree with sheltered parenting practices, cus the ends to me don't justify the means. if you mystify something so much, you're just going to create a fascination for it. i can't protect my kids forever, and i don't want to try to. tracking what they do online doesn't help them in that regard anyways. all it does is leave evidence. then again, i have no interest in making sure my kids think research love (edited to broaden this since this is more accurate) and swears are immoral, so long as they understand that they aren't socially accepted (which is very very easy for people to pick up on, especially kids, even with just one social experience that gives them that impression), and trying to enforce a moral system onto your children is one of the more major reasons this monitoring is done