You should be like me; I never ever post a real life picture of me because one day when I'm doing important stuff someone won't blackmail me with my vulgar online past, or maybe a boss will Google me and won't find the 40 times I said monday or something
It's an age where everything you post online is public and can be viewed by anyone. that picture of you and your kids probably belongs to Facebook. So your whole scary 'legal action' is just bullstuff lol