if he does post in this thread I hope he at the minimum considers some advice I gave to him, or if he doesn't do that, post why he isn't. there's no judging at this point
sure i will
ego
gr8dayseth refuses to hear anything bad about himself and instead chooses to only listen to positive comments about himself instead of addressing a majority of the negative ones. this results in posts like this:in the above post he replies to a few negative comments and many more positive ones instead of actually defending himself
honestly i don't get what's wrong with these two, i did respond to a good number of negative comments in the second one and some more later on in the thread but i still like to acknowledge positive things people say to me, idk maybe i do it too often though i agree it wasn't necessary in that last quote
fake & baby talk
him being / acting "wholesome" gives him a reputation of being the kindest on the forum and gives him several people always at his defense if anyone disagrees with or dislikes him. this act of him being pure and innocent becomes especially noticeable sometimes and gets borderline annoying. he also tends to speak in cutesie tumblr talk and emoticons which makes his posts worse.examples of his "tumblr talk":
ya i do agree i can get pretty carried away with it and have actually tried to tone it down recently but i still like to have a couple silly posts every now and then
advice for seth
i feel like it would be best to add this section just because. here are some things that gr8dayseth should consider or try to make him a better forum user:
- stop with the dumb myspace talk. its dated, unnecessary, and gets on peoples nerves
like i said, i'm working on toning it down, but i probably won't stop completely
- listen to criticism instead of just ignoring it then thanking everyone that has your back
oh yeah trust me if it's actual criticism and not just blatant flaming or whatever, i really am listening to it and considering it
- quit the "wholesome" act. the passive aggressiveness you display (not quoted in this thread) instead of actually providing an opinion is obnoxious. you can be nice without being fake.
i really don't understand why so many people insist that me being positive and wholesome is an act, i really do like being this way
as i've said multiple times before, the passive aggressiveness is usually unintentional and i'm working on not appearing as if i am
in conclusion i'm already pretty aware of me over-doing these things and am trying to tone it down, but i'll still do this stuff every now and then because i find it fun and positivity is something i feel like this place needs some more of anyway :)
