Grappling Hook [mod edit by Conan]

[Alphadin]

Well no. Definitely not whining. But dropping facts, in response to questions or, insults, that people post, is yeah. Honestly, the most alpha thing to do would be to let you guys think what you're gonna think. But I figured, if I reply with facts, a sane person can look at the topic and see how toxic you guys are, plain and clear.

Am I not sane? I feel like I've been trying to address this a little carefully and yet you're ignoring what I think are valid criticisms and commends through some stupid form of "Your opinion of me is wrong and factually incorrect."

Irrelevant, you missed my point.

And you completely missed mine, so I'll go back and do it all again.

And yet you make the claim that you could harm other forumers and assume they'd act the same way they act online?

But online people tend to cultivate fake personas for who they are, instead of being their authentic selves.
Isn't that a tad strange?

You failed to manage the situation because you handled it by not having tame statements. I hope you at the very least realize your fault in this mess.
I like to mention one's online presence reflects on the person they are in real life too, even in spite of these "fake personas".

What kind of person would be as disingenuous online, and then supposedly be "their authentic selves"? A liar is a liar.

Let me restate this then:

How can you so blatantly claim that other forumers are toxic/violent/beta/starfishs/whatever you want to call them and yet someone at the same time, claim that you in real life are capable of having a separate persona, of being a different and better person? What kind of bullstuff is you being some sort of sole exception to this? And you know it really wouldn't kill you to at least admit you have a fault in escalating this situation because you're garnering absolutely no more sympathy. I would criticize Conan for a few things, but I am admittedly petty and would not give you any sort of satisfaction of doing it on a public forum but instead would take it to say, oh I don't know, a personal message.

Oh and those final lines? I'm calling bullstuff on you. I don't think anyone who just acts like an starfish online is some sort of victim. They've always been an starfish. I think the same of you here. A liar is a liar, you'd act just the same irl as you do here given you knew you could get away with it.

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[tommybricksetti]

bro your voice tone wasnt that neutral, and even the most neutral tone wouldnt take away the fact the words themselves are condescending

I never said neutral, I said calm and matter-of-fact. My tone of voice is usually positive, not neutral or monotone. As it is with most sociable people in general. Nobody wants to talk to a low self-esteem, depressed, awkward dude irl, but online people can kinda mask that stuff.

I'll tell you one thing you didn't hear in my voice:  Anger.

[Electrk..]

hata can you do another voiceover but also do the voices of the people you're replying to

[Stellarnaut]

I never said neutral, I said calm and matter-of-fact. My tone of voice is usually positive, not neutral or monotone. As it is with most sociable people in general. Nobody wants to talk to a low self-esteem, depressed, awkward dude irl, but online people can kinda mask that stuff.

I'll tell you one thing you didn't hear in my voice:  Anger.

yeah dude you probably actually chug 2 liters of soy milk when you get out of bed lol. also do what electrk said

[Postal]

log off bro why you tryin to justify yourself like some kinda virgin

just walk away bro lmao

[gr8dayseth]

and even the most neutral tone wouldnt take away the fact the words themselves are condescending

ya that's kinda what i was trying to get at, certain words themselves can set a tone and if you don't really want to come off as like condescending or passive-aggressive, you should probably try to re-word it

I never said neutral, I said calm and matter-of-fact. My tone of voice is usually positive, not neutral or monotone. As it is with most sociable people in general. Nobody wants to talk to a low self-esteem, depressed, awkward dude irl, but online people can kinda mask that stuff.

I'll tell you one thing you didn't hear in my voice:  Anger.

try and make it seem like you're being more like that if you don't want to be interpreted the wrong way

[tommybricksetti]

Am I not sane? I feel like I've been trying to address this a little carefully and yet you're ignoring what I think are valid criticisms and commends through some stupid form of "Your opinion of me is wrong and factually incorrect."And you completely missed mine, so I'll go back and do it all again.Let me restate this then:

How can you so blatantly claim that other forumers are toxic/violent/beta/starfishs/whatever you want to call them and yet someone at the same time, claim that you in real life are capable of having a separate persona, of being a different and better person? What kind of bullstuff is you being some sort of sole exception to this? And you know it really wouldn't kill you to at least admit you have a fault in escalating this situation because you're garnering absolutely no more sympathy. I would criticize Conan for a few things, but I am admittedly petty and would not give you any sort of satisfaction of doing it on a public forum but instead would take it to say, oh I don't know, a personal message.

Oh and those final lines? I'm calling bullstuff on you. I don't think anyone who just acts like an starfish online is some sort of victim. They've always been an starfish. I think the same of you here. A liar is a liar, you'd act just the same irl as you do here given you knew you could get away with it.

Nah, it's waaay simpler than that. For me, when I say 'harsh' things irl, the fact that I radiate positivity overall basically overrides that. There was a time I told a girl she was "not ugly" and she smiled and laughed it off. Any alpha can do stuff like that irl. So the issue is really just that I have no way of emulating that innocuousness effect online, or at least I haven't incorporated one.

[Conan]

I never said neutral, I said calm and matter-of-fact. My tone of voice is usually positive, not neutral or monotone. As it is with most sociable people in general. Nobody wants to talk to a low self-esteem, depressed, awkward dude irl, but online people can kinda mask that stuff.

I'll tell you one thing you didn't hear in my voice:  Anger.

nobody's saying you're unreasonably angry, everyone's saying your ego is massive. theres a big difference.

Nah, it's waaay simpler than that. For me, when I say 'harsh' things irl, the fact that I radiate positivity overall basically overrides that. There was a time I told a girl she was "not ugly" and she smiled and laughed it off. Any alpha can do stuff like that irl. So the issue is really just that I have no way of emulating that innocuousness effect online, or at least I haven't incorporated one.

literally out of /r/incel or /r/nofap, jesus christ

[Stellarnaut]

Nah, it's waaay simpler than that. For me, when I say 'harsh' things irl, the fact that I radiate positivity overall basically overrides that. There was a time I told a girl she was "not ugly" and she smiled and laughed it off. Any alpha can do stuff like that irl. So the issue is really just that I have no way of emulating that innocuousness effect online, or at least I haven't incorporated one.

an alpha doesnt have to say "im an alpha, i radiate positivity and girls start spurting out of their vaginas" its like saying you're funny. it comes off as loving selfish and not ccool

[tommybricksetti]

nobody's saying you're unreasonably angry, everyone's saying your ego is massive. theres a big difference.
literally out of /r/incel or /r/nofap, jesus christ

I don't even have an ego though. I'm honestly hurting your feelings by mistake. Honestly. In fact. Hang on, let me apologize for hurting your feelings, my bad Conan.

[Postal]

Nah, it's waaay simpler than that. For me, when I say 'harsh' things irl, the fact that I radiate positivity overall basically overrides that. There was a time I told a girl she was "not ugly" and she smiled and laughed it off. Any alpha can do stuff like that irl. So the issue is really just that I have no way of emulating that innocuousness effect online, or at least I haven't incorporated one.

the only thing you radiate is soy and frustration

[Alphadin]

Nah, it's waaay simpler than that. For me, when I say 'harsh' things irl, the fact that I radiate positivity overall basically overrides that. There was a time I told a girl she was "not ugly" and she smiled and laughed it off. Any alpha can do stuff like that irl. So the issue is really just that I have no way of emulating that innocuousness effect online, or at least I haven't incorporated one.

Tommy, perhaps you should actually ask the people you say harsh things to what they thought about it. There's nice people who would keep from you the fact that perhaps you're just being an starfish. They know how to spare feelings, something I can't help but feel that you haven't picked up on.

[Postal]

I don't even have an ego though. I'm honestly hurting your feelings by mistake. Honestly. In fact. Hang on, let me apologize for hurting your feelings, my bad Conan.

nah, if you didnt have an ego you wouldnt need someone to give you credit for a grapple worse than the pre-existing one on a gotdamn lego sim forum bruh

[Stellarnaut]

the only thing you radiate is soy and frustration

more like loveual frustration because not only is he missing out on reality, his richard missing out on a girl

[Postal]

he wont even reply to me anymore cause he's a pusillanimous individual and words on a screen hurt his feefees ;(