I get it if someone doesn't like to be expected to act like a man or hates being judged against other women because they are not ladylike enough. but changing your gender is a hilariously stupid way to break out of expectations. rather than being comfortable with your un-manly or un-ladylike behavior and trying to stand up against society's arbitrary gender rules, you're just running away. like saying 'you can't judge me if I'm not male or female!' which in itself is the most superficial and arbitrary delusion one can enforce upon themselves, even more arbitrary then society's gender norms.
So, you don't feel comfortable with your gender. What will help: behaving how you want and how you feel comfortable with in the face of all judgement, or giving yourself an arbitrary title of nonbinary? I mean obviously you could do both but the latter of the two is gratuitous. If suddenly non binary as a label no longer exists , how will your life change? Will you suddenly be forced to act differently because one word dictates how you're supposed to act?
Hootaloo you aren't nonbinary. Youre a dude who acts more feminine than society's expectations. That's the fact. Nonbinary is just a label and basing your entire personality and existence around it is hella dumb. A transgender woman is not a woman; it's a man that feels more comfortable acting as a woman. Having your priviledge to call yourself a woman, as transgender, does not infringe on your rights or your life. You are still free to act however you like
