The internet is a stuffhole for actual argument most of the time because no one goes in wanting to learn anything, and no one is invested in the other person enough to care to. Especially with this forum, threads are essentially digital diary diarrhea where everyone spills their 2c, and then their 2c about someone else's 2c, ad nauseum. You can interpret how someone types their message any way you want, and generally speaking you're always going to inflect a bit of your own bias into how you read someone's message.