Circling back to the server hosting discussion, I got a few things up my sleeve.
There's a few servers out there for people that are already made. Hodot's big TDM comes to mind. The download doesn't work anymore, but I still have the files for it and the required add-ons in case anyone wants to try it out. I plan on releasing Snowy Hills for download, but I think people were right when they said the map was too big. Fighting would be so spaced out and people would quickly lose interest.
Meanwhile, my Trench Wars server seems far more promising.