i'm trying to level up my jet to get guided missiles or rocket pods, any tips (or videos) on flying real well, i'm decent already but i'm not exactly great
Stay a fair bit back and look for jets that are just as confused as you. Try to sneak up behind them, and follow them a decent amount. Wait until you can a good shot, and fire your autocannon in short bursts, unless you're sure you can land 90% of the shots.
If the other enemy jet gets behind you, forget about it unless you're sure you can take out the one you are targetting. Then do whatever you can to dodge.
Once you get heatseekers, lock on to enemy jets (duh), and follow until you can get really close. Launch 1 missle, and let it hit, then they will most likely deploy flares. Lock on again, disable the jet by shooting missle 2. Then finish him off with the autocannon. As long as 1 bullet hits every now and then, it'll prevent the jet from auto-repairing if it will. Helicopters, just rape with the autocannon. Once you can get a good solid aim on them they're forgeted. If you can only hit them with heatseekers, just wait until you get close, then set them off. 1 should hit, and if you can turn around quick enough, they should be reloaded, and the smoke from the heli will make it easier to see.
Once you get rocketpods, make sure you have good aim.