MARBLE MAN is out

[Moonstar Akemi]

only having been dating her for one year is even worse. you don't even know what living with her will be like, and you want to spend the rest of your life with her?

and enjoying the physical side of the relationship doesn't make you a pig lmao. it makes you normal and in a healthy relationship. if you exclusively have only an emotional or only a physical relationship, you're gonna have a bad time.

When I said I wasn't a pig, I meant I don't go around loving people because it's for "experience" and some stuff. I literally mean it when I say I have morals. And yes, I do intend to spend the rest of my life with her. It's a feeling that I just know is going to last. And if we're all still around in a couple years, I'll be sure to talk about the wedding.

It doesn't matter if I don't know what living with her is going to be like. I know who she is well enough to know that it's going to be nice. What do you think we're going to fight or have knives at each other's throat or something? It'll be fine. I'll prove it to you in time, just wait. :D

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[DiceyGrammar]

. What do you think we're going to fight or have knives at each other's throat or something?

i think it's impossible to know what living with someone is like until you actually live with them. you don't know if it will be good or not, all you do is talk to her on the internet

also you're getting married in a couple of years? lol

[SWAT One]

When I said I wasn't a pig, I meant I don't go around loving people because it's for "experience" and some stuff. I literally mean it when I say I have morals.
That's great and all, but by saying you aren't a pig and that you have morals, you kinda set yourself apart from a lot of people, namely much of this forum who sees differently.  I perceive that it was taken by DG here as a "holier-than-thou"-kind of exclusive statement.  DG, correct me if I am wrong.

And yes, I do intend to spend the rest of my life with her. It's a feeling that I just know is going to last. And if we're all still around in a couple years, I'll be sure to talk about the wedding.
Well I have to ask you:  Have you talked with her about your plans for the future to make sure she feels the same way?  If not, I would think about doing so before you realize that you may be in some kind of wild goose chase or if you have incongruent plans.  If you have, and you guys agree on something, then great; I'm very happy for you two.

It doesn't matter if I don't know what living with her is going to be like. I know who she is well enough to know that it's going to be nice.
It actually matters a LOT.  I can guarantee that both of you have bad habits or character flaws that you may hide from each other now, but living with her will bring all of those out in both of you.

What do you think we're going to fight or have knives at each other's throat or something? It'll be fine. I'll prove it to you in time, just wait. :D
I don't know how you arrived at the whole potential hostility thing. DG has a point about the whole trade-offs and balances, though I couldn't agree with having a non-marital relationship without love as being unhealthy, given the culture in which I grew u, but he's right that in a romantic-type relationship, both need to be present.

[Mr Noobler]

Guys, go have a party in the Block Party.

i cant

[Wrapperup]

This topic is every drama that has ever happened into 1.

[Parallax]

This topic is every drama that has ever happened into 1.

Drama section is such a time vampire too, and it's just so users can talk stuff about other users, directly conflicting with the "Hold Harmless" statement in the Terms of Service.

[Moonstar Akemi]

i think it's impossible to know what living with someone is like until you actually live with them. you don't know if it will be good or not, all you do is talk to her on the internet

also you're getting married in a couple of years? lol

I've seen her plenty enough times. It's not your place to judge, sorry.

Mannn, I wish you could've typed outside the quote. That would have been easier. But yeah, we've already agreed on it. We talk about the future all the time. We're focused on making sure we can get stable incomes so that we can eventually have enough money to move in together and work from there. We're working our way up. Also nah, I'm agnostic. I have morals, but I'm not saying: "I'm a Christian and these morals are good!"

I know what you mean about bad habits or hiding flaws. I've made sure that we both talked about everything and we're at that point where we're hiding absolutely nothing from each other (if we had anything). We're both fine on that. Trust me, our relationship is far more in-depth than you could possibly imagine. That's why I take it seriously. This isn't just some "high school relationship" bullstuff. lol

I don't really care who doesn't believe me anyway. It's none of their business to begin with.

As for how I arrived at that hostility thing, it was like 4AM and I wasn't thinking properly. lol

[Chrono]

So I have two questions.

Why are people trying to get involved in other people's relationships?
Why are people trying to defend their relationships when the person attacking doesn't matter anyways?

[Moonstar Akemi]

So I have two questions.

Why are people trying to get involved in other people's relationships?
Why are people trying to defend their relationships when the person attacking doesn't matter anyways?

Yeah, I don't know why I'm even talking about it. I guess I felt the need to clarify.

[Nickelob Ultra]

You weren't even here for my era and you're jumping on the bandwagon to gain attention.

"era" lol don't flatter yourself, you were the target of drama it's not like you were anyone famous, only infamous.

[Moonstar Akemi]

"era" lol don't flatter yourself, you were the target of drama it's not like you were anyone famous, only infamous.

I'm not flattering myself. You're clearly trying to drag this out longer than necessary.

Stop. lol

Just because I told him to stay out of it because he wasn't from the time I came around doesn't mean I'm self-proclaimed famous. Chill the forget out.

[SWAT One]

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I live in a committed relationship much like yours, and we've been at it for almost 20 months.  We are aware of our character flaws and discuss our future often.  We've agreed to marry in the future as well.

Trust me, I'm in the same boat, so I know where you're coming from.

[Nickelob Ultra]

I'm not flattering myself. You're clearly trying to drag this out longer than necessary.

Stop. lol

Just because I told him to stay out of it because he wasn't from the time I came around doesn't mean I'm self-proclaimed famous. Chill the forget out.

calling it something like an "era" just makes you look dumb and i felt the need to call you out on it.  deal with it.

[Chrono]

Remember that General Nick era?

[Stocking]

i think the stocking era was the best era because stocking is really smart and pretty