Hate? I'm not the one trying to sabotage every server you host. All I'm asking for is you to leave me alone.
Do you want to know what I do when I am in the same position as you? When someone dislikes me so they try to do something to me? No, you probably don't care, but I'll explain anyway.
I stop being a little bitch and get over it. Lets put an example in... I'm not going to use any names, but if you'd like to find out who it was, PM me and I will gladly tell you.
When I was working on a project with this particular person, we spent about two or three days going through some of his old saves and taking buildings from his un-finished projects to create an entirely new one for a mod someone had given us (a medieval RPG thing)
After a few days of building, I noticed he was a very good builder, but always chose his colours poorly. When I re-coloured everything to realistic colours, he had a big cry about it and in the end, he banned me from every server he was admin at and completely blew it out the water. Anyways, back to the point... I haven't banned him from my server, even though he banned me from probably around 7 and still from servers.
So WHY do I not ban him from my servers?
Because I don't care. He hasn't done anything to the game play of the server and I don't need to be a little bitch about it and cry because of what happened in the past. Yes, if he destroyed the game play then he would be banned, but for now if he comes to my server he may give some artistic input or maybe even create something nice.
He comes to my server knowing that if it was someone else in my position that he would be banned, and he respects that. He is polite when he talks to me and now stops banning me in his servers and his friends servers, and isn't a pain in general.
Sorry to tell a whole loving story, but I wanted to give you an example of what 'not being a lil bitch' is like.
Make of it as you will.