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 You know, I never understood why they call people who defend feminists, uh-- 'Social Justice Warriors', you loving wot m8.

 PS: SOCIAL JUSTICE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH FEMINISM OR DEFENDING FEMINISM, NOR 'CHECK YOUR 'PRIVILEGE'

It's almost totally right. They never called us murderers, but they did call us worse than CIA and ebola.
Once again, you're saying "they" as if that means something. Individuals said those things, not a collective "enemy" that people seem to be on about nowadays. Individuals act, "they" is too generalized to be an actual thing referred to in these types of discussions.

When that gets through peoples skulls, Gamergate and stuff like it will cease to exist.

Once again, you're saying "they" as if that means something. Individuals said those things, not a collective "enemy" that people seem to be on about nowadays. Individuals act, "they" is too generalized to be an actual thing referred to in these types of discussions.
I will admit that it's a bit silly to say that anti-GGers in general think that, which I was not intentionally trying to imply. However, 99% of anti-GGers think pro-GGers are* misogynists and out to harass women, and I'm going to say that anti-GGers in general think that until you can show me some stats saying otherwise.

When that gets through peoples skulls, Gamergate and stuff like it will cease to exist.
Yes, because it's totally our fault that a bunch of gaming news sites harassed everyone who just wants to play games and we should just let that go.

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You know, I never understood why they call people who defend feminists, uh-- 'Social Justice Warriors', you loving wot m8.

 PS: SOCIAL JUSTICE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH FEMINISM OR DEFENDING FEMINISM, NOR 'CHECK YOUR 'PRIVILEGE'
Feminism is pursuit of social justice for women, meaning equal treatment for both genders, but centered around women. Check your privilege was initially a serious thing to say that someone's argument might be less valid because of them not understanding the difficulties of belonging to a certain group of people.

It's not people who defend feminists who are social justice warriors, it's some of the feminists themselves.

I will admit that it's a bit silly to say that anti-GGers in general think that, which I was not intentionally trying to imply. However, 99% of anti-GGers think pro-GGers are* misogynists and out to harass women, and I'm going to say that anti-GGers in general think that until you can show me some stats saying otherwise.
Yes, because it's totally our fault that a bunch of gaming news sites harassed everyone who just wants to play games and we should just let that go.

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Once again, you're acting like a grunt in the trenches. Step back, and look how loving ridiculous your post looks. What the forget is an anti-GGer? A pro-GGer? How do you know what these GGers think? Are you not hearing the most vocal minority of both sides? What about the vast majority that has formulated their opinions based on what other people have been discussing, biased or unbiased articles and posts, or even incorrect or purposefully altered information on people or events?

Also you want me to show you stats of anonymous people's opinions? Wow, I'll get right on that.

I'm going to ignore the petty insults in your post, and I ask that you refrain from making any more as I'm trying to have a mature conversation here.

What the forget is an anti-GGer?
A person who does not support the ethical reform of gaming media, or a person who does not support the supporters of ethics reform in gaming media.

A pro-GGer?
Someone who supports ethics reform in gaming media.

The above 2 are just my opinion, although that opinion is shared among many many people. some people (like vocal minorities of the opposing side) have been known to define a pro-GGer as someone who supports the harassment of women.

How do you know what these GGers think?
I never said I did. If I said it indirectly, it was not intentional and was a misinterpretation.

Are you not hearing the most vocal minority of both sides?
The most vocal minority in the pro-gg side can be considered to be the ones who actually do harass women.
The most vocal minority of the anti-gg side can be considered to be the ones who think pro-ggers are worse than CIA or Ebola. This is as far as I know, if you know otherwise please let me know.

What about the vast majority that has formulated their opinions based on what other people have been discussing, biased or unbiased articles and posts, or even incorrect or purposefully altered information on people or events?
I don't know, what about them? I honestly have no idea what you're trying to get at here.
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I'm going to ignore the petty insults in your post, and I ask that you refrain from making any more as I'm trying to have a mature conversation here.
A person who does not support the ethical reform of gaming media, or a person who does not support the supporters of ethics reform in gaming media.
Someone who supports ethics reform in gaming media.

The above 2 are just my opinion, although that opinion is shared among many many people. some people (like vocal minorities of the opposing side) have been known to define a pro-GGer as someone who supports the harassment of women.
I never said I did. If I said it indirectly, it was not intentional and was a misinterpretation.
The most vocal minority in the pro-gg side can be considered to be the ones who actually do harass women.
The most vocal minority of the anti-gg side can be considered to be the ones who think pro-ggers are worse than CIA or Ebola. This is as far as I know, if you know otherwise please let me know.
I don't know, what about them? I honestly have no idea what you're trying to get at here.
My grunt brown townogy was not an insult. I'm crushed that you thought it was. :C

Once again, my point flies right across the top of your head. I wasn't literally asking for you to answer all that stuff. I'm asking you why you're polarizing a group of people, and how you think that will make anything better? Do you not think there is merit to the ideas on both sides that need to be addressed?

Honestly, I'm trying to get you to think. I don't need any more bullstuff thrown at me about the events of GamerGate, they're uninteresting and old news. I just want for the love of all that is holy and good, for people like you to stop relying on stuffty generalizations of people, and to merely discuss ideas. That is all that should be a part of a pro-GG's agenda, pushing ideas of ethics reform. Ignore Quinn, ignore Sarkeesian, ignore KingofPol, ignore InternetAristocrat, etc; focus on what matters, not the whoevers that want themselves to matter.

So, back to real discussion. At what point do you think a games journalist should have to disclose a relationship with a developer, after the first non-work related meeting? If a developer and a journo meet at say BlizzCon, have a few beers, hang out for a few hours, and then never see each other again, should the journo disclose that? What about if a journo donated money on a kickstarter, and a couple of years later wants to do a review on the game, should they have to disclose their donation?

Being for ethical reform of gaming journalism and being against it are mutually exclusive.
It isn't something you can be on both sides for. You can disagree with actions (ie vocal minorities harassing women/anti-gg or vocal minorities calling pro-gg worse than CIA/ebola)


Game journalists should follow the same protocol as a non-gaming journalism site.

If they donate money to a kickstarter they SHOULD disclose their donation.

I think I'm getting your point here. I'm not generalizing people though, I'll always think of people as individuals. I'm merely using the terms "pro-gg" and "anti-gg" to refer to all people who have certain opinions on certain subjects, as I cannot hope to address every one of the tens of thousands of individuals as individuals.

Sarkeesian for example is much more guilty of this than I am, I think anyways. She literally generalizes any "pro-gger" as a misogynist that's just out to harass women and achieve male dominance. This is the kind of thing that makes many pro-ggers (and even some anti-ggers) not trust her, among other things.

There are some ideas that both sides have (You actually acknowledge there are sides! ;O) that need to be addressed. like that in some cases, women are not represented correctly in games. I agree that's a problem in some cases and I have no issues with that.

And the whole death threat against sarkeesian thing. However, that's the extreme minority of the pro- and anti-gg sides. The pro side has some extremists, just like most other groups, and the anti side has some extremists that want to make the pro side look bad. The sensible majority of both sides do not make death threats and generalizing the entire group based on that is a terrible thing to do. (Note that I'm not implying that you've done anything personally, just giving an example of what some people have thought and done)

But I'm not going to ignore the big figureheads however. They have opinions, and I want to hear them out and pick their opinions apart if necessary. I'm pretty sure I've mentioned that before.

So, back to real discussion. At what point do you think a games journalist should have to disclose a relationship with a developer, after the first non-work related meeting? If a developer and a journo meet at say BlizzCon, have a few beers, hang out for a few hours, and then never see each other again, should the journo disclose that? What about if a journo donated money on a kickstarter, and a couple of years later wants to do a review on the game, should they have to disclose their donation?
In my opinion, if they donated to the creator of the game, they should disclose that they donated. For the whole "Hanging out for a few hours" one, it really depends on what was said during that time. If for example they were just discussing random things that have nothing to do with their jobs, that's perfectly fine. But if the creator is say, asking for a better rating or a more positive article because that means he gets paid more, then that's the kind of thing that needs to be mentioned. It all depends on the circumstances.

Being for ethical reform of gaming journalism and being against it are mutually exclusive.
It isn't something you can be on both sides for. You can disagree with actions (ie vocal minorities harassing women/anti-gg or vocal minorities calling pro-gg worse than CIA/ebola)


Game journalists should follow the same protocol as a non-gaming journalism site.

If they donate money to a kickstarter they SHOULD disclose their donation.
There ya go with sides. It's gotta be sides, there's gotta be a split down the middle of the fine people that are for us, and the scum that is against us. What if I'm for an examination on how money plays into review articles, but I couldn't give a stuff about whether or not some guy in his personal life donated $20 to an indie game and then wrote about it? What side am I on?

This is what I'm talking about, you're painting in black and white when in reality there's 50 stufftons of different shades of gray. People aren't binary creatures, they don't necessarily hold straight edge opinions that can neatly fit in an ideological box. So for that reason, there's no reason to try to shove them into a "side". There needs to be a discussion, like I said, on ideas. Ethics reform, gender roles, political motives in developing games, lets talk about it all. There's only one way to diffuse an internet feud, and that's ripping open the ideological boxes so that people can start playing loving video games again without having to choose a "side".

I think I'm getting your point here. I'm not generalizing people though, I'll always think of people as individuals. I'm merely using the terms "pro-gg" and "anti-gg" to refer to all people who have certain opinions on certain subjects, as I cannot hope to address every one of the tens of thousands of individuals as individuals.

Sarkeesian for example is much more guilty of this than I am, I think anyways. She literally generalizes any "pro-gger" as a misogynist that's just out to harass women and achieve male dominance. This is the kind of thing that makes many pro-ggers (and even some anti-ggers) not trust her, among other things.
But why are you addressing people at all? What point are you trying to make about game ethics reform when you say "they" or "that side", "those guys", "pro-gg", "anti-gg", etc? Also, Sarkeesian is one of the worst. Notice I said to ignore her. :)

There are some ideas that both sides have (You actually acknowledge there are sides! ;O) that need to be addressed. like that in some cases, women are not represented correctly in games. I agree that's a problem in some cases and I have no issues with that.
Oops, don't read the beginning of this post then. :)

Honestly, I'm formulating my ideas as I type, so things may contradict slightly as I go. Really, there are sides, at the moment. There are three-ish, gamergaters, anti-gamergaters, and the majority of people caught in the cross fire of extremism and hate. But sides aren't tangible, they're just labels with meanings simply as you said earlier to make talking about people and their opinions easier, or in some cases they are meant to truly polarize. One of the most stark comparisons you can make is the Democratic and Republican party, groups with such a varying amount of opinions on so many issues that you wonder why they're still around, and partially its because they've successively polarized voters. It's an us vs. them mentality that is very hard to shake, especially when real-life stuff like the economy seems to depend on it so much. We, as I would think logical gamers, need to shake this stuff off right now, before we really do damage to the industry and hobby we all enjoy.

And the whole death threat against sarkeesian thing. However, that's the extreme minority of the pro- and anti-gg sides. The pro side has some extremists, just like most other groups, and the anti side has some extremists that want to make the pro side look bad. The sensible majority of both sides do not make death threats and generalizing the entire group based on that is a terrible thing to do. (Note that I'm not implying that you've done anything personally, just giving an example of what some people have thought and done)

But I'm not going to ignore the big figureheads however. They have opinions, and I want to hear them out and pick their opinions apart if necessary. I'm pretty sure I've mentioned that before.
Extremists always ruin everything...

And fine, go ahead. But please don't let people distract you from ideas. When people think of Gamergate, they may think ethics reform in games journalism, they make think misogyny in games, which both are fine, they're issues, and they matter. But the worst thing is is when someone becomes a "celebrity" with real influence purely because they're associated with choosing an extreme side of an argument and not really contributing to it at all. Sarkeesian hasn't really done stuff for her cause, she doesn't deserve the attention she's getting, but neither does KingofPol and InternetAristocrat for just roasting Sarkeesian and Quinn. It's a feud between "figureheads" and its not helpful whatsoever.

In my opinion, if they donated to the creator of the game, they should disclose that they donated. For the whole "Hanging out for a few hours" one, it really depends on what was said during that time. If for example they were just discussing random things that have nothing to do with their jobs, that's perfectly fine. But if the creator is say, asking for a better rating or a more positive article because that means he gets paid more, then that's the kind of thing that needs to be mentioned. It all depends on the circumstances.
There it is, a great word: circumstances. Circumstantial ethical reform. That's what we need. You can't blanket the gaming print media with ethical reform and call it a day, you have to discuss these things, cause people aren't binary. We don't switch between true and false when we are friends with people, there is no set boundary between I know you, and we're friends. Romantic relationships, sure, they're easier, but friends? Nah. Because of that gray area, sometimes we have to put trust in writers, earned trust, but simple faith-like trust all the same. There might not be a mechanism to catch every corrupt gaming journalist in the world, but one sure fire thing will do it, varying your sources, and relying on your own mind. It's amazing how many problems can be solved by thinking rather than acting.

Don't feel the need to respond to all that, got a little carried away. If you have the time though, go for it. :)

once you're a certain shade of gray, however, it's more reasonable to start calling that color white or black.

once you're a certain shade of gray, however, it's more reasonable to start calling that color white or black.
No, considering white is white and black is black. There's a spectrum of being an starfish, and just because lately you've been leaning towards being an starfish to everyone, doesn't mean you are one.

Edit: The overall point is that rounding up to the nearest black/white is generalizing and not at all helpful to fostering discussion rather than continual stuff-wars.
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once you're a certain shade of gray, however, it's more reasonable to start calling that color white or black.
That's tribal.

once you're a certain shade of gray, however, it's more reasonable to start calling that color white or black.
One of Fifty.