As someone who has friends that overthink everything. You're overthinking this.
My advice would be locking this topic and do everything how you would do it. Don't take probably stuff and trolling advice from people on a lego forums topic that's known to be inhabited by handicaps. These people know almost nothing about this 'girl', you know the most about her, and she's your girl, so do what you want to do, not what others say you should do.