yeah the concept of language being offensive is prohibitive and dumb, but it exists for good reasons
no matter who you are or where you go, there are going to be things that are not acceptable to say. the social mechanism that forces you to recognize this is stigma and no matter how much of a chad you are, it's gonna happen to you if you use offensive language on purpose. (disclaimer: if you literally only hang out with people who don't find that language offensive this won't happen)
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